Tsamba inobva kumhuri yaTom kuenda ku "Pawrents" Vese

Vadiwa Varidzi:

Kwaziwai! (or) Kwaziwai!

Kana iwe pachako ukadurura ndiro yekudya kunodziya yekatsi kadiki kumba, woomesa mapadhi aro emakumbo akanyorova, wochenesa bhokisi remarara nguva dzose, kana kuti womutswa nemusoro waro wakapfava uchikugunzva pakati pehusiku, unofanira kunge uchinzwa zvechokwadi, sezvatinoita isu, unyoro uye chisungo chakavanzwa mushoko rekuti "mubereki wemvere". Kubva payakatanga, Mhuri yaTom yakagara iri shamwari yemhuri dzese dzemvere. Tinonzwisisa rudo rwako kuvana vako vane mvere, uye kupfuura izvozvo, pfungwa diki dzakadzikama dzakavigwa murudo irworwo.

Uchiri kurangarira here nguva yekutanga yawakaunza mwana wako ane mvere kumba? Angangodaro akaungana achidedera mubhokisi remakadhibhodhi, kana kuti akazunza muswe wake achibata mumaoko ako. Panguva iyoyo, kudziya kwechanza chako kwakava kunzwa kwaro kwese kwekuchengetedzeka munyika, uye maziso aro akanyorova, anopenya akashanduka kuva nyaradzo nechishuwo chawakafamba nacho mumazuva asingaverengeki ari mberi. Kubva pazuva iroro zvichienda mberi, wakatanga kudzidza kuverenga manzwiro ese aro: parinotenderera pauri, riri kukumbira kubatwa; parinotora chitoyi charo rochidonhedza patsoka dzako, riri kuedza kugovana mufaro; parinoerekana rarara risinganetseki, moyo wako unosvetuka nekutya ipapo ipapo. Rudzi urwu rwe "kunetseka nguva dzose" ndiro mutoro wevabereki vane mvere, uye ndicho chikonzero nei Mhuri yaTom ichiramba yakatendeka kune zvaidiwa pakutanga.

Mumazuva ekufamba nevana vako vane mvere, unofanira kunge wakasangana nematambudziko akawanda: kutenga chikafu chisina kukodzera chaikonzera zvituru zvakapfava, kusarudza mahanesi asina kukwana aiita kuti kufamba kuve kwakaoma, kuunganidza matoyi anopenya asi asina basa airaswa mushure memaminitsi matatu ekufarira, kana kusarudza mhando isiriyo yetsvina yekatsi uye kunzwa seusina simba paunenge uchiitarisa uchiikwenya-kwenya. Tinonzwisisa zvakadzama kuti mubereki wese ane mvere anoda kupa zvakanakisisa kumhuka dzake dzaanoda, asi kazhinji anonzwa akaremerwa nezvinhu zvakawanda zvinoyevedza zviri pamusika. Ndosaka Tom's Family akaisa "hunhu" uye "kukodzera" muDNA chaiyo yechikwata chedu. Takaunganidza timu yekutsvagisa ine hunyanzvi inoona nezvekutarisira nekutarisira zvipfuyo, uye takagadzirisa chigadzirwa chega chega kakawanda kuti tive nechokwadi chekuti chinogutsa zvinodiwa nevana vane mvere vane mazera akasiyana uye mamiriro emuviri akasiyana. Hatidi kuti muzombonetseka nemubvunzo wekuti "zvekusarudza"; tinongoda kuti chigadzirwa chega chega cheTom's Family chive mutakuri werudo rwenyu kuvana venyu vane mvere.

Hupenyu hwemwana ane mvere hupfupi—hupfupi zvekuti haugone kufamba nesu kwenguva inopfuura nguva. Asi rudo rwemwana ane mvere haruna muganho—rwakakwana kuti huzadze mwoyo yedu yese. Vanochinja hupenyu hwese hwekuvimbika kwemakore gumi nemaviri ehukama hwedu. Rudo urwu rwese ndicho chisungo chakakosha pasi rose. Mhuri yaTom inoda kuva mutsigiri wako akasimba parwendo rwako rwekurera mhuka. Kunyangwe shamwari yako ine mvere iri mwana anoshanda uye anotamba, mukuru ane simba, kana mukuru munyoro uye anononoka, tinogona kupa zvigadzirwa nemasevhisi akagadzirirwa iwe nemwana wako ane mvere munguva yese yehupenyu.

Taona nyaya dzisingaverengeki dzinobaya mwoyo pakati pevana vane mvere nevaridzi vadzo: vashandi vemuhofisi vanomhanyira kumba zuva nezuva, vachishinga migwagwa ine vanhu vakawanda kuti vangombundira katsi dzavo dziri dzoga; vanunuri vanochengeta mhuka dzakarasika zuva nezuva, vachidzipa pekugara kubva kumhepo nemvura. Rudo rwuri munyaya idzi haruna miganhu yerudzi kana mutengo—runongova rwechokwadi chete. Mhuri yaTom inotarisirawo kupa rudo urwu nenzira yedu.

Saka, mumazuva anotevera, Mhuri yaTom icharamba ichidzika midzi yedu muindasitiri yemhuka dzinovaraidza, tichigara tichigadzira zvigadzirwa zvitsva uye tichivandudza masevhisi. Tinotarisirawo kuva nemukana nekukwanisa kushanda pamwe chete nemasangano ekununura munyika yese kuti titange mipiro yerudo, kuvaka dzimba dzine rudo dzevana vane mvere dzakatsauka; kuita misangano yemahara yekuchengeta mhuka dzinovaraidza, kubatsira vachengeti vemhuka vatsva kudzivirira matambudziko akajairika; uye kugadzira nzira yekukurukura nezvehutano hwemhuka, uko vanachiremba vemhuka vane hunyanzvi vanogona kupindura mibvunzo yako. Nekuti tinoziva kuti kuda vana vane mvere hakusi basa remunhu mumwe chete—ibasa rinodziya pakati peboka remidzimu yehama. Mhuri yaTom ichagara yakabatana nemhuka dzese dzinovaraidza, ichichengetedza hukama hwese hwakanaka pakati pevana vane mvere nevaridzi vadzo. Mwana wese ane mvere ngaabatwe neunyoro, uye munhu wese anochengeta mhuka ngaakohwe mufaro mukuru kubva parwendo rwehukama.

Chekupedzisira, tinoda kuudza munhu wese ari mumhuri yedu kuti: Hausi kupa wega wega. Unopa mwana wako ane mvere imba, uye izvozvo zvinokuporesa kweupenyu hwako hwese.

Nerudo kwamuri nevana venyu vane mvere.